Vulnerability
June 21st, 2006
I find it interesting some days when I see clearly both the darkness and the light within me.
I have also been wondering about the defences I have, and whether I be more vulnerable. I think the answer is probably yes. It’s interesting too how much easier I find some people (usually women, but not always) to share things with. I think that says more about the way men generally communicate with other men and all the stupid cultural expectations we place on ourselves. The whole concept of “manhood” is often a barrier to taking proper concern for people I think, but that is another rant.
It’s an interesting thing when every woman is a trophy and every man a contestant. I think it’s a result of the fall, and I struggle to be able to be a brother rather than a hunter.
I like that “be a brother rather than a hunter.”
The whole concept of manhood being a barrier to care. Yeah I can see that. Maybe that is why men invented the concept in the first place. Aren’t I being cynical? I shouldn’t be. Men can be great carers and great to share with.