Home group
Got a home group to go to for Turramarra Uniting Church(TUC). It’s in Hornsby which is nice, but I don’t know if I am going to keep going to the church or the home group. You see the problem for me is that I am not sure if I belong at TUC. I’ve been going on and off for about 9 months. Helped run a kids group gone to a few social events but never really hit it off. I have a few friends but no real closeness. I find it hard to talk to people too, the group dynamics don’t seem to work. The services are okay but I don’t really think they challenge me.
All this wouldn’t be a problem if I hadn’t gone to St Stephen’s Belrose last week. You see I’d been once before but that was for Tom preaching. I am pretty biased when it comes to Tom preaching and so therefore it didn’t supprise me I thought it was good. But when I went again I was suddenly confronted with how much better Belrose was. I am not just talking preaching though the preaching is top notch, I am talking about fellowship. When I have gone to Belrose I have had people to talk to. Macca’s has been great fun, and I at least think I fit in more socially. The only real problem with Belrose is the song slides.
But TUC has excellent song slides. And there are people I have formed relationships with. I don’t know if I am quite ready to leave those people yet.
So what to do. What to do. I think I have come up with a simple plan. I will attend each church at least once each month and see what I think. See whether God is leading me one way or the other. I might be going overseas for six months in July. When I come back I’ll make my final decision.
Does that sound fair?
Does anyone else have other suggestions as to how to do a church evaluation?
Do you think I should tell people at TUC that I am thinking of trying another church?
March 31st, 2004 at 7:26 pm
I think it’s really important that both parties are comfortable with having an open relationship. Otherwise it can get mighty awkward when you get caught seeing other people. I’ve often found an open relationship though strengthens the primary one, adds a bit of spice.